Is “Confident” the New Codeword For Fat?

I’m not sure if I’m paranoid or if I have yet to master the art of accepting a compliment. I have this sneaking suspicion that confidence is a code. A disguise lingering in the comments section lurking under “WERK” and the handclap emojis praising your latest Fashion Nova Curve purchase. Up until recently, I was willing to dismiss comments like “I wish I had that kind of confidence”, as innocent, but not all praises of confidence are created equal.

A Seat At The Desirable Table

  This Seat is Taken Have a seat. I saved a seat at the desirable woman table just for you. I believe there is a…

3 Chic & Easy Thanksgiving Looks

Ah, Thanksgiving the food, the family, that comment your extended family member didn’t have to say to your face. Who’s not excited? Whether you are…

Something for EVERY Body 16 Fashion Bloggers You Should Follow

As an avid body advocate of body positive media I read my fair share of blogs. As a style expert when I see something stylish…

How to Style Yourself on Stage

You know what we never talk about? That I am a poet and a spoken word artist and  I have performed nationally since 2009. I…

My 7 Fashion Rules I Broke This Summer

  I feel like I dress better in my thirties than I did In my twenties. Which is ironic because I think I had a…

3 Tips To Make Your Next Thrift Store Experience Easier

  Loving vintage and being plus size is a double edge sword. So many super cool options but so few items are fond in the…

The Best Way To Style Your Jean Jacket This Season

Let’s Put A Pin In That Denim is my cure all, anytime I want to tone down anything sleeveless my immediate remedy is to throw…

Style Sunday | Black Does Not Make You Look Thinner

I have nothing against a little black dress. I think black can be powerful and sexy. I also know women who wouldn’t dare wear another…

The Barbecue Rules of Engagement

Whether you are hosting your own cookout or you are attending someone else’s there is something you want more than food this holiday weekend. Independence…